Love Them? Don’t Leave Them the Job

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This is one of the biggest topics we cover in my upcoming seminars. If you’ve ever wondered who should be in charge when you're gone—or what that person will really have to do—join us. We’ll talk through what makes a good executor, red flags to watch for, and why planning ahead can save your family time, money, and conflict.

Stay tuned for upcoming dates, and bring your questions.

Or better yet, bring your future executor.

Being named an executor is an honor, but it can also be overwhelming. From handling legal paperwork and navigating probate to paying debts, filing taxes, and managing family expectations, the role comes with serious responsibility. Most people have no idea what they’re signing up for until they’re in it, and by then, it’s too late to back out.

That’s why I’ve created this page: to give you the tools, clarity, and confidence to understand the job, ask the right questions, and decide whether you’re truly the right fit or if naming a professional might be the better option.

Choosing the right executor is important, but it’s only half the battle. Even the most capable executor can’t do their job properly if you haven’t left clear instructions or made essential plans. Without a will, funeral arrangements, or organized paperwork, your executor is often left guessing while juggling grief, deadlines, and impatient family members. Preplanning your funeral, outlining your wishes, and keeping your documents in order isn’t just thoughtful, it’s necessary. It’s the difference between a smooth process and complete chaos.